The power of edging. Edging is what I like to call the ABC’s of Tantra for men. It’s one of the most common practices that I teach and a...

I pray To touch You. How can I touch you? I pray To serve You. How can I serve you? I pray To reach The world. What is needed? I think...

I feel the unraveling right now big time. The crumbling. The sense of where I am going being massively rerouted. A big shake up to the...

It’s actually never possible. Even when we arrive to a city or a house where we think we have been before we haven’t gone back. We have...

Preparation. Making ready for all that is to come. Every moment in life is preparing me for the next. But sometimes I’m more present to...

Sitting in a cafe writing this morning for the first time in ages. This used to be a nearly daily practice. Blogging, grinding, agonizing...

Nor have I been since 2016. I had two people this week say something about well, “Since you’re married....” and I went “What?!?” It had...

It’s honestly been more intense receiving and consuming media only over the last week. I didn’t expect that. Honestly so selfish as it...

Maybe you’re feeling like a snail. Warm socks, jammies, no makeup and not having showered in a day. Sex is the last thing on your mind....

When I went to Peru I took about three weeks off of my daily self pleasure practice. This practice was something that I had cultivated...

The first day, we were told that we had a 4 hour hike after a 4 hour van ride to get to our destination. I was pretty confident that I...

Of all the travel I have done, no trips I have been on come anywhere even close to this one. The outstanding things from his trip in...

I had over 10 years being totally sober. Not even consuming alcohol at a level that was altering. I was scared of substances and...

This morning the rain flooded the thick tarp covering my outdoor couches. As I was resting after my workout, I was suddenly compelled to...

This weekend I had my mom in town and I realized I wasn’t allowing myself to receive her love. I saw how far I had come in the last year...

It’s hard for me to show up on my journey when I feel such a mix of emotions. I feel bone crushing loss and disorientation. I feel...

Pain in every form is just an access to a lesson. When it feels too big to handle that’s the time to really face it. What you’re afraid...

It’s been coming for months. When we grow into a bigger version of ourselves, the person we thought we were has to die. I experienced...

Some days they are higher than the day before. Some days they are filled to the brim with seaweed. Others they are so calm and small and...

Another way to say this is letting go. Lately this is something that life has been teaching me across the board. In my business. My...

As I started my morning on the beach a block from my house I was struck by how unlikely it was that I would ever end up here. Three...

Sitting at service in Agape yesterday I was so moved by how small I play my life. By how much juice I have and that flows through me and...

The sun pours in the living room window as I walk out of the bedroom, groggy but smiling as I tie my robe around my waist. Its still and...

This week I am taking a break from striving. No pretty picture. No frills. Just here is what’s on my mind. I know sharing my authentic...

A client said to me yesterday you’re crazy aren’t you? I laughed and smiled and said yes. Then he said, “the worst/best thing about you...

I’ve been going hard about non-monogamy since I left my marriage. I have one of the biggest hearts I’ve found. I know I can love big. I...

From the bench in the Mexican restaurant I was googling “huts in the water.” Just mere weeks later I’m now preparing to take off for a...

This thought strikes me as I’m perched in a low squat, naked, on my balcony in the spot of sun, bowl of haphazardly combined mushy cooked...

I’ve been doing some journeying lately. Every three days. I’ve been taking on a spiritual practice with this And what it’s showing me is...

It’s been clear to me for several years that my purpose is to spread the gospel about sacred sexuality/Tantra/the temple arts. And I...

Breathing in, I feel like I’m an endless source of love and energy. Feeling like I’ve got a well stored up in me waiting to flow into any...

I’ve fallen in love again. I expect it to get easier, less firey, more neutral as I get more practice. But no… at least not this time. I...

“What makes this relationship valuable to you, enough that you’re willing to travel to meet for two days?” What a great question posed...

Just one week ago I emerged from a deep tantra and shamanic immersion called ISTA. International School of Temple Arts. I’ve been...

How long have you been here? Where were you last week? Why are you going to _______ country? Are you on holiday or are you living here? ...

It seems that the more feminine I allow myself to become, the greater the ease of life is around me. I have been having more sessions in...

(The following is a post written by an anonymous guest, who shared the message I mention in the post last week called "Paternal.") The...

As I unpack my suitcase and dump out all kinds of crumbs, sand and pebbles that could be from a smorgasbord of at least 5 of countries,...

His words echo in my heart on behalf of all men. He says, “I have no regrets in my life, but if I didn’t have any, it would be that I...

I could write a book about what has happened for me in Guatemala. Guatemaya. In fact I think I will. However for now, there is a special...

This week I lost my phone for a few days. What I realized was that even as little as I think that use my phone, it holds so much of my...

It’s my word for 2019. The importance of pleasure is one of the fundamental truths that’s is hidden (and at times blatantly shared) in...

Get this: nipple piercings and pussy, self-pleasure and self-development, getting naked in front of strangers, going from a 9-5 to having...

I am “Live Love” or “Liv Love.” But what does that mean? Love is a big one. We all have our baggage about it. Our views, our past, our...

“The body as a vehicle for devotion. That’s what I am interested in.” “The medicine of the mirrors and the reflection….Seeing people...

This morning, I did a bunch of healing anger from when I was a teenager. I owned not feeling a sense of freedom and autonomy that I...

I'll be hosting two workshops next week in San Francisco. One is a self - pleasure circle just for women and the other is a co-ed self...

1. Let it go. I don’t need to have such a structure especially about tracking my daily performance goals (meditation, yoga, etc). All the...

Finally I’m ready to share about Burning Man. It’s such an experiential event that the 2D doesn’t begin to grasp it. Attempt one ensues...